Would you ever feel like coming back to such a home every day?

no i wouldn't i would want a mother that would support me in everything, and guide me in the right path. That would just make me feel down and depressed having my own mother be like that, and if she is i just don;t listen to her and shrug it off. You can just follow your own dreams its your life just don't listen to your mom. Maybe she might be going through something.